Cambodian Culture

Cambodian traditions and culture are largely defined by the religion of the people where 95% practice Theravada Buddhism. Most Cambodians will try to avoid aggression and confrontation at all costs. Raised voices and loss of temper are extremely unusual in Cambodian life and are rarely productive.

The concept of "face", as with most Asian cultures is extremely important and belittling of Cambodians is likely to engender resentment - the use of humor to defuse situations and make light of criticism is very commonly seen. Cambodia is definitely a place where you learn to take a more relaxed approach to life - keep smiling and you will get a lot more done. This buddhist influence can also cause many Khmers to seem fatalistic about their lot in life.

The Khmer welcome - a Sompiah

Cambodian culture is generally very welcoming. Inviting guests to their house/village/country is important. Even the poorest Khmers will do their best to share food and water with rich foreigners (and the fact that you have made the effort to travel to Cambodia defines you as rich to the vast majority of Cambodians). Show generosity of spirit towards the people of the country, and you will be rewarded.

The traditional greeting is the Sompiah, a slight bow with hands together in front of your chest, fingers pointed up. Most Khmers recognise that westerners will not understand the nuances of this, and you are best advised to ask a Khmer to show you though if you attempt a Sompiah incorrectly much will be forgiven. The gesture is not often used formally in the cities (beyond hotel lobbies) but visits to private houses, especially in the country, can reward a reasonably well-executed sompiah.

Dress

The Khmer people are modest, and tend to dress conservatively avoiding revealing clothes. Wearing short trousers or skirts, in particular, is unusual, and westerners are viewed a bit odd in this regard (particularly in view of insect bites). When entering a pagoda, revealing clothes must not be worn - bare shoulders and knees will be viewed as disrespectful (think wearing a bikini to church). Some sites may refuse admission, or you may be able to borrow longer garments - the Royal Palace in Phnom Penh for instance will rent unsuitably attired visitors a flattering pair of "one size fits nobody" long trousers for $2.

Back to "Cambodia Vacation Advice" page.